Thursday 30 August 2012

THINGS TO DO.................


Health:

1.       Drink plenty of water.

2.       Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.

3.      Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants..

4.       Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy

5.       Make time to pray.

6.       Play more games

7.       Read more books than you did in 2009 .

8.       Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day

9.       Sleep for 7 hours.

10.    Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

 

Personality:

11.    Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

12.    Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

13.    Don't overdo. Keep your limits.

14.    Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

15.    Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.

16.    Dream more while you are awake

17.    Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..

18.    Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

19.    Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

20.    Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

21.    No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

22.    Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.

23.    Smile and laugh more.

24.    You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree...

 

Society:

25.    Call your family often.

26.    Each day give something good to others.

27.    Forgive everyone for everything..

28.    Spend time w/ people over the age of 70 & under the age of  6.

29.    Try to make at least three people smile each day.

30.    What other people think of you is none of your business.

31.    Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

 

Life:

32.    Do the right thing!

33.    Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

34.    GOD heals everything.

35.    However good or bad a situation is, it will change..

36.    No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

37.    The best is yet to come..

38.    When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.

39.    Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

 

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but rather by the number of breaths we take away!


"Truth is..everyone is going to hurt you..you just have to find the ones worth suffering for..." 

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MAY ALLAH GIVE US HIDAYA


When the world kicks your feet out from under you 
 
If you're spiritually alive, you're going to love this! 
If you're spiritually dead, you won't want to read it. If you're spiritually curious, there is still hope! Why Go To Mosque



A mosque goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and complained that it made no sense to go to mosque every Friday. 'I've gone for 30 years now,' he wrote, 'and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons. But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them. So, I think I'm wasting my time and the Imaams are wasting theirs by giving sermons at all.' 

This started a real controversy in the 'Letters to the Editor' column, much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher: 

'I've been married for 37 years now. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals, But I do know this... They all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today. Likewise, if I had not gone to mosque for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!'

 When you are DOWN to nothing.... Allah is UP to something! 
Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible! 


Thank Allah for our physical AND our spiritual nourishment! 

 
May Allah Give us Hidaya.......AND KEEP US ON RIGHT PATH - AMEEN.....................

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THE GOD-FEARING DESCRIPTION - ALI ibn TALIB (A.S.)




HIS DESCRIPTION OF THE GOD-FEARING 

as said by Ali ibn Abi Talib (a.s.)......

All praise and gratitude are due to Allah (s.t.)

The God-fearing in this world are the people of distinction.  Their speech is to the point, their dress is moderate and their gait is humble.  They submit to Allah with obedience.  They keep their eyes closed before what Allah has made unlawful for them and they put their ears to knowledge.  They remain in the time of trials as though they remain in comfort due to their satisfaction with the act of Allah.  If there had not been fixed periods of life ordained for each, their spirits would not have been remained in their bodies even for the twinkling of any eye because of their eagerness for the reward and fear of chatisment.  The greatness of the Creator is seated in their heart, and so, everything else appears small in their eyes.  Thus, to them, Paradise is as though they see it and are enjoying its favours.  To them Hell is also as if they see it and are suffering punishment in it.

Their hearts are grieved, they are protected against evils, their bodies are thin, their needs are scanty, their souls are chaste, and their supporting Islam is great.  They endured hardship for a short while, and in consequence they secured comfort for a long time.  It is beneficial transaction that the Generous Lord made easy for them.  The world aimed at them, but they did not aim at it.  It captured them, but they freed themselves from it by a ransom.

During a night are upstanding on their feet reading portions of the Holy Quran and reciting it in a well-measured way, creating through its grief for themselves and seeking by it the cure for their ailments.  Their griefs are stirred as they weep for their sins and the pains of their wounds and injuries.  If they come across a verse creating eagerness for Paradise they pursue it avidly, and their spirits turn towards it eagerly,and they feel as if it is in front of them. And when they come across a verse which contains fear of Hell they bend the ears of their hearts towards it, and feel as though the sound of Hell and its cries are reaching their ears.  They bend themselves form their backs, prostrate themselves on their foreheads, their palms, and their toes, and beseech Allah the Sublime for the deliverance.

During the day they are wise, learned, virtuous and God-fearing.  Fear of Allah has made them thin like arrows.  If any one looks at them he belives they are sick, although they are not sick, and he says that they have gone made.  In fact, great concern (i.e., fear) has made them mad.

 If they remember the sublimity of Allah the Exalted and the stability of His ominpotence, in addition to the mention of death and horrors of the Day of Resurrection, their hearts are dreaded, their views are agitated, and their minds are bewildered.  If they feel fearful, they hurry to Allah through good acts.  they are not satisfied with their meager good acts and do not regard their major acts as great.  They always blame themselves and are afraid of their deeds.

When anyone of them is spoken of highly, he says: “I know myself better than others, and my Lord knows me better than I know.  O Allah does not deal with me according to what they say, and make me better than they think of me and forgive me those shortcomings which they do not know.  You are the All-Knowing of the unknown.

The peculiarity of anyone of them is that you will see that he has strength in religion, determination along with leniency, faith with conviction, eagerness in seeking knowledge, courtsey in lenience, clemency in alms-giving, understading in awareness, knowledge in forbearance, moderation in riches, devotion in worship, gracefulness in starvation, endurance in hardship, mercy for the exhausted, fulfillment of the right, leniency in earning, desire for the lawful, pleasure in guidance, hatred from greed, piety in straightforwardness, and abstinence in appetites.  The approval of him who ingornes him does not decieve him. He does not stop judging his deeds.  He performs virtuous dees but still feels afraid.  In the evening he is anxious to offer thanks to Allah.  In the morning his anxiety is to remember Allah.  He passes the night in fear and rises in the morning in joy- fear lest night is passed in forgetfulness, and joy over the favor and mercy received by him.  If his self refuses to endure a thing which does not like, he does not grant its request towards what it likes.  The coolness of his eye lies in what is to last forever, while from the things of this world that will not last he keeps aloof.  He tranfuses knowledge with forbearance, and speech and action.

You will see his laziness aloof, his activity uninterrupted, his hopes simple, his shortcomings few, heart fearing, his spirit contented, his ingronance absent, his affairs simple, but religon safe, his desires dead, his anger suppressed, his mannerism pure. He does not brief about what is kept secret with him.  He does not conceal the testimony agaist his enemies.  He does not do any practice ostentatiously.  He does not leave anything shyly.  Good alone is expected from him.  Evil from his is not to be feared.  Even if he is found among those who remember Him.  He forgives him who is unjust to him, and he gives to him who deprives him.  He behaves well with him who behaves ill with him.

His forbearance is not absent.  He does not neglect what adorns him.  Indecent speech is far from him, his utterance is lenient, his evils are turned its face from hi.  He is dignified during calamities, patient in distress, and thankful during ease.

He does not commit excess over him whom he hates, and does not commit sin for the sake of him whom he loves.  He does not claim posession of things that are not his.  He does not deny others' rights that are obligatory upon him.  He admits truth before evidence is brought against him. He does not misapproriate what is placed in his custody.  He does not oppress or threaten others.  He does not cause harm to his neighbor, he does not feel happy at others misfortunes.  He hurries to the right.  He fulfills the trusts.  He is slow in ill deeds.  He enjoins good and forbids evil.  He does not enter into the worldly pleasures wrongly and does not go out of right.

If is he silent his silence does not grieve him, if he laughs he does not raise his voice.  He satisfies with what is his.  Malice does not agitate him.  Whims do not overcome him.  Stringiness does not prevail him.  He does not desire for what is not his.  His associates with people so as to learn.  He keeps silent so as to be safe.  He asks so to undestand.  He does not listen to the good wording so that others will not find themselves neglectful in comparision with him.  He does not speak of his good actions so as to avoid taking pride in it before others.

 If he is wronged he endures till Allah takes revenge on his behalf.  His own self is in distress because of him, while the people are in ease from him.  He puts himself in hardship for the sake of his next life, and makes people feel safe from himself.  His keeping way is not by way of vanity or feeling of greatness, nor his nearness by way of deceit and cheating.  He follows the example of the past men of virtue and he is the example of the coming people of virtue.

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THE ETHOS OF PROPHET JACOB (A.S.)


THE ETHOS OF PROPHET JACOB (A.S.)

JACOB was the son of Isaac, the son of Abraham.  His mother is Rafaqah, the daughter of Betoeel, the brother of Abraham.  He married his cousin, Laeeya who gave birth to many children. After the death of Laeeya, he married her sister, Raheel (Racchel),.  Joseph and Benjamin were of her children.

According to Immam Baqer (A.S.) he used to live in Kan'aan.  But he left it for Egypt where he passed away and his body was returned to Kan'aan.

According to Naasikh At-Tawarrekh, Jacod and his twin brother - Isa- passed away on the same day and buried by Joseph near each other.  That was 3630 years after the fall of Adam.

HIS HOSPITALITY

Immam Ja'far as-Sadiq (a.s.) said: Prophet Jacob had a herald who heralded everyday from Jacob's house up to distance of six kilometers: “O people! Whoever wants to have lunch should come to Jacob's house " and when evening came, he heralded: " O people! Whoever wants to to have dinner should come to Jacob's house."

GOOD FOR GOOD

Isaac said to Jacob: Allah has appointed you as Prophet and your sons as Prophets.  He has placed in you good and blessing.  And he ordered him to go to a place in Damascus by the name o Fadan.

When he reached that place, he saw a girl standing at a well intending to water a sheep.  On top of the well, there was a stone which could only be removed by a number of men.  Jacob said: Who are you ? She said “I am daughter of Laban who was Jacob's uncle.  Jacob removed the stone immediately, helped the girl and watered that sheep.  Then, he went to his uncle and sought her hand in marriage Laban, which was accepted and Jacob married her.

JACOB'S FAMILY

When it was morning, Joseph wore his clothes, fastened his belt took his staff in his hand and left home together with his brethren.  Jacob too poured Joseph's provision in the same bowl in which Abraham poured Isaac's provision.  When Jacob went to see off his children, they said:

O Prophet of Allah! Go back.

Jacob said: O sons! I advise you to piety (guard against evil) and to my beloved, Joseph.  I beseech you by Allah to feed Josepeh when hungry and water him when thirsty.  Keep on safe-guarding him.  Do not abject him.  Be merciful and grateful to him.

They said: O our father! We are all your sons and he too is our brother but since you love him he is more beloved than we are.

 Jacob said: Yes, my sons! Allah is my witness over you.  While I fear you might harm him.  Then he came to Joseph, embraced him, drew him closely to his chest, kissed him between the eyes, saying: I entrust you to Allah.  Then he went back home.

 HIS GRIEF

 When Jacob heard the news about Joseph from his sons, he turned his face from them saying:

Woe to me for separation from my dear Yusuf.  He wept so much that his eyes went blind and the grief of separation agonized his heart.  Jacob's sons said to him: By Allah, you will repeat Yusuf's name so many times that you will get sick because of separation or you will die.

 Jacob said to his sons: I only complain of my grief and sorrow to Allah, and I know from Allah what you do not know (Holy Quran 12:86)

 GOOD NEWS FOR JACOB

Immam Sadiq (A.S.) said: An Arab Bedouin came to Joseph to buy the provision from him.  When he did so, Joseph asked: Where is your house? He said: In such and such place.

Joseph said: When you pass by such and such desert, stop for while and cry loud: O Yaqoob! O Yacoob! Then a graceful handsome man will come and answer you.  Tell him: In Egypt I saw a man.  He sends regards to you and says: Your trust is with Allah- Glorified and Honored- and that he has not been killed.

When the Arab Bedouin reached that place, he told his servants to look after his camels, and then cried: O Yaqoob! O Yaqoob!

 A handsome tall strong blind man came out groping against the wall and approached him.  The Bedouin said:  Are you Yaqoob? He said: Yes.  Then the Bedouin conveyed his message, telling him what Joseph had said.  Hearing this, Yaqoob became unconscious and fell on the ground.

After some time he came to and said: O Bedouin! Do you want to pray to Allah for your needs?

The Bedouin said: Yes, I am wealthy and married to my cousin but she has not given birth to any child yet.  I want you to pray to Allah to give me a child.

Yaqoob performed ablution and a two-rak'at prayer invoking Allah to give the man a child.  Yacoob's prayer was answered and the man's wife gave birth to twins for four or six times.

 COMPLETE FAVOR

It is reported that Jacob asked the messenger who brought the good news of Joseph's being alive: How is Yusuf? The messenger said: He is the king of Egypt and master of that terrorist.

Jacob said: What am I do with his kingdom and terrorist? In what religion did you find him? The man said:  In Islam, the Jacob said:  Now the favor has been completed.

HIS LETTER TO THE KING

 Jacob wrote a letter to Joseph which read: From Yaqoob son of Ishaq, sacrifice of Allah, son of Ibraahem, the friend of Allah, to the king of Egypt.

But next: We are the household constantly prone to tribulation.  My grandfather, Ibraaheem afflicted with tribulation.  He was thrown into fire.  My father, Ishaq was afflicted with being sacrificed.

I had a son being apple of my eyes, whose sight made me happy.  He was devoured by a wolf.  I wept over him so much that my eyes went blind.

He had brother who made me glad after him but you took him for a thief whereas we are a household never committing theft, nor being known as thieves.  Do me a favor by setting free my son whom you have taken as a thief.

When the letter reached Joseph, he opened it and by reading the letter, he yelled, went inside and stared weeping.  Then Joseph washed his face, came out and read the letter again.  Then he yelled, wept and went inside and wept once again. Then he washed his face and returned to his brother saying:

Do you know how you treated Yusuf and his brother when you were ignorant? (H.Q. 12:89)

When Jacob and Joseph met, they embraced each other and started weeping.  Then Joseph said: O father! You have wept over me so much that you have gone blind.  Don't you know that we are gathered on the Day of Judgment when we will meet?

Jacob said: Yes, my son! I knew this but I feared you might lose your faith and we will be separated on the Day of Judgment.

ADVISING HIS SONS

 Being at the point of death, Jacob called his son

 What will you serve after me?  

They said: We will serve your Allah and the Allah of your fathers, Ibraaheem and Ismail and Ishaq, One and Only, and to Him do we submit (HQ: 2:133)

Jacob said: O my sons! Surely Allah has chosen for you (this) faith, therefore die not unless you are Muslims  ( H.Q. 2:132)

SERVICE OF BAYTUL- MUQADDAS

He was the first to enter it and the last to leave it.  He used to light the candles there in.

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O, ZEYNAB (S.A.)


O, Zeynab you are the head band of Umm al-Kitab

You have the tongue of Abu Torab in your mouth

Your expression is full of storm of wrath

Noah stands over your flood

Your Speech is the majesty of the lion of god

Dhul Faqar-Murtida is in your tongue

O, sister of guardian, verily your speech did as Ali’s sword

O, You saved your life just by saying ‘be silent’

O, you are the soul of the verse ‘do not despair’

When your melody of wrath was heard by the  bells,

The bells kept silent O, sweatheart of Ali

O, Fatima ! if you were the wife of Ali of nobility, a mother for Mustafa

Zeynab was more than a sister

She was a mother to her brother

Who hath trained such a daughter, but you

When did a shell form a pearl like you.

O, Zeynab! The flamming candle

O, the memory of blazing tents

Speak of Karbala’s suffering

Narrate the story of braves and cowards

Tell about the completely burnt palms

About the dried water-skins

About the weeping, moaning and tearing

Abot the Euphrates, and the instability of water

About the river and tearing of water

Describe the inauspicious palace of Yazid

(written by Muhammad Ali Mujahidi (Parvanah) ( Sayri dar Malakut 396-400)

(extracted from book Immam Hussain (a.s.) and the tragic saga of Karbala)

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THE IMPORTANCE OF 'SALAWAT'

 "The Mercy of Allah and His Blessings be upon Ahl al-Bayt.  Verily He is the Praiseworthy and Glorious" (The Holy Quran)

 With the passing of every day of our lives, we must take the opportunity to get closer to Allah (s.w.t.).  One of the ways we can do this by imploring the Almighty Allah to send His blessings upon the Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.s.) and his Pure Progeny (a.s.).  One is recommended to recite this Salawat throughout one's life as a way to achieve this goal.  Why is so much importance placed on this act and what exactly is the reward of one who recites the Salawat?

 COMMANDMENT IN THE HOLY QURAN

 In the Holy Quran, in surah al-Ahzab, Verse 56, we read : "Surely Allah and His Angels bless the Prophet: O you belive ! Call for (Divine) blessings on him and salute him with a (becoming) salutation."

 In this verse, it says that Allah and the Angels send blessings on the Holy Prophet and He commands those who believe to do the same- send blessings and follow (submit) to his ways.  The Salawat is the only act in which Allah (s.w.t.) joins the Angels and the believers too are commanded to take part in it.

 THE HOLY PROPHET(SA.W.S.)'S INSTRUCTIONS

 Now let us see how the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) himself has instructed to send blessings for him.

 The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) said, "Do not salute for me in short!”

The companions asked, “What is saluting in short?”

The Prophet (s.a.w.s.) replied: "Saying that Blessing of Allah be upon Muhammad."

They asked "what should we say?"
The Propeht (s.a.w.s.) answered, " Say: Blessing of Allah be upon Muahmmad and his household the same way as you blessed Abraham and the household.  Verily you are worthy of all praise full of glory"

 This saying of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s) was in connection with the following verse of the Holy Quran which was related about the House of Abraham (a.s.) :

 They said: “Do you wonder at Allah's decree? The Mercy of Allah and His Blessings be upon you O people of the House! For He is indeed worthy of all praise full of glory!”

(The Holy Quran 11.73)

 In fact, invoking Salawat on the Prophet's family was so important that it has been included in ANY Salawat on the Prophet (s.a.w.s).  Invoking Salawat on the family of the Prophet is a sign of pledging allegiance to them, and affirming what Allah Himself has affirmed for them: They are perfectly cleansed and worthy of being salauted.

 Immam Ja'far as-Sadiq(a.s.) our 6th Immam said: " One who sends 10 Salawat on the Prophet and his family, Allah and the Angels send 100 Salawats upon him, and one who sends 100 Salawats upon the Prophet  and his family, then Allah and the Angels send 1000 Salawat upon him.  Have you not heard the words of Allah, Glorious and Magnified be Him, " He it is who sends blessings upon you and so too to His Angels so that it may take you out of the darkness into light and verily He is merciful to the Believers."

 MERITS OF SENDING SALWATS

 

  • Allah and the Angels send blessings upon one who sends Salawat on the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) and the Ahlul-Bayt
  • One who sends Salawat resembles the Angels, and thus as a result of this one is also entiltled to a part of the special mercy that the Angels receive due to the recitation of the Salawat.
  • One, who sends Salawat on the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) and his family, reaches a point where he becomes the friend of Allah (Khalilullah) due to the great status that the Salawat itself has.
  • Recitiation of Salawat will result in one being closer to the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) on the Day of Judgement.
  • One who recites Salawat every day and night will be worthy of receiving the intercession of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w..s) on the Day of Judgement.
  • When we say “O Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and the family of Muhammed" the the Prophet replies to us by saying, “And upon you be peace".
  • One attains the pleasure of Allah and comes closer to the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) by recitation of this Salawat.  The 6th Immam Immam, Ja'far as-Sadiq (A.S.) said: "You’re sending Salawat upon me results in the acceptance of your requests and desires and Allah becomes pleased with you."  Also the Prophet had said that,"The most worthy of people on the Day of Judgement will be those sent the most Salawat upon me in the world."

SOME OF THE WORLDY BENEFITS ARE THE FOLLOWING:

 

  • For every 100 Salawat receite, 100 legitimate desires and wishes will be fulfilled by Allah (s.w.t.).
  • When one recites Salawat out loud, his heart gets freed of hypocrisy
  • The duas (supplications) of the reciter become pure and sincere
  • The reciter is liberated of poverty
  • If one cannot find something or has forgotten where he has placed it, then by recitation of Salawat, it will be brought back or found inshaallah.
  • Salawat degrades Satan and puts out the fire of Hell.

SOME OF THE BENEFITS IN THE HEREAFTER

  • The worthiest and closest person to the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) on the Day of the Judgement will be the one who sent the most Salawat upon him in this world.
  • Intercession by the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s) will become a certainty for the one of who recited Salawat upon Muhammad and his family (peace be upon them all).
  • On the Day of Judgement, Salawat will appear as a light (noor) on the person's head, right side, left side and above him.
  • One who recites the Salawat, Allah will give him the reward of 72 martyrs (shaheed)
  • The heaviest thing on the Day of Judgement will be Salawat (recited by a person) and it will also light up his grave.
  • One who sends 100 Salawat, Allah and the Angels send 1000 upon him, and the fire of Hell won't affect him.

PLEASE NOTE: of course, one must remember that this reciting, just as with other acts of worship, must be with complet sincerity and not for any reason other than seeking the pleasure of Allah (s.w.t.) and proper conduct in compliance of His command.

 May Allah (s.t.) give us all the ability to perform the Salawat with the utmost devotion and attain the benefits of it, both in this world and in the hereafter.  AMEEN.

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THE WISDOM OF IMAM AL-KADHIM (A.S.)


THE WISDOM OF IMAM AL-KADHIM (A.S.)

 

1.   Anyone who acknowledges Allah should not complain when his earnings are delayed and should not suspect the acts of Allah

2.   The believer is like the two pans of a balance – the more faith he enjoys the most misfortunes he faces.

3.   Try to divide your time into four parts:  The first should be dedicated to (secret) supplication to Allah, the second to seeking earnings, the third to associating with the friends and the trusty people who show you your defects and treat you sincerely, and the fourth to your legal pleasures.  Through this part, you can manage the other three parts.

4.     Do not think of poverty or long age.  He who thinks of poverty will be stingy and he who thinks of long age will be acquisitive.  Offer a share of worldly pleasures to yourselves by enjoying moderately the legal pleasures that do not injure your personalities.  Make sure pleasures help you fulfill your religious duties perfectly.  It is said that, “As for those who neglect the legal worldly pleasures completely and adhere to the religious duties or neglect the religious duties and adhere to the worldly affairs, they are not from us

5.   In the time of the just ruler, you should thank and he will gain rewards.  In the time of the unjust ruler, you should tolerate and he will burden the punishment of the sin.

6.   The best kind of alms-giving is to help the weak.

7.   For the steadfast, the misfortune is one, while it is two for the impatient.

8.   Only the sufferers of injustice can realize its intensity.

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