Sunday 2 December 2012

Oct 27, '10 2:37 PM
for everyone
Greater Sin is Consumption of Harām. In the Qur’anic ayat ‘Akal al-soht’ is translated as eating of what is unlawfully acquired. Hence the word “eat” is not restricted to consumption of edibles but includes the use of any and every article, which has been acquired unlawfully or by illegal means.
Consumption of Harām is listed as greater sin in the HolyQur’an and the tradition of Imam Riďa (a.s.) from the book Uyūn al-Akhbar ar-Riďa and the tradition of Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) as related by Amash. In the following ayat of Surah al-Mā’ida: “And you will see many of them striving with one another to hasten in sin and exceeding the limits, and their eating of what is unlawfully acquired; certainly evil is that which they do. Why do not the learned men and doctors of law prohibit them from their speaking of what is sinful and their eating of what is unlawfully acquired? Certainly evil is that which they work.” (Surah al-Mā’ida 5:62-63)
In this ayat Soht refers to the acquirement as well as use of anything acquired unlawfully. The dictionary meaning of ‘Soht’ is ‘to be finished’ or ‘to be lost’. The thing that becomes ‘Soht’ is that which is finished off or used up. The use of this word signifies that unlawfully acquired things do not have any ‘barakat’ and will not benefit the possessor in any way. It should be evident that this unlawful practice would include usurping another’s property, taking interest and all activities that are undertaken using the money obtained by illegal means. The use of article brought with such money is also unlawful.
Sayyid Abu A’lā Maududi writes in his book Islam and the Economic Problems: “Islam permits the people to obtain their livelihood in any way they choose. They have their freedom to choose their occupation and obtain the necessities of life, but Islam does not allow them to earn in a manner that is harmful for society. It should also not endanger the social equilibrium. Islamic laws not only prohibit the consumption of wine and intoxicants and gambling, but also prohibit any action that causes these sinful things to come into being. For example to undertake cultivation of grapes for wine making, to manufacture wine, to transport, to buy or sell wine, to give it and to use it; all these are Harām too. Islam does not consider free-sex to be a human activity. Islam has prohibited dancing. It does not consider singing and playing musical instruments lawful professions. Any activity that is beneficial to one person but harmful to someone else or to society is considered Harām in Islam.
All such types of actions carry a heavy punishment in this world and a dreadful retribution in the hereafter e.g. bribes, stealing, interest-taking, adulteration and frauds, unlawful hoarding of edible items to hike their rates making life difficult for the poor. In the same way all such actions that instigate wars and those occupations that do not require effort, making the person rich by luck, such as lottery. All these occupations are Harām.”

Shaykh Sadūq (r.a.) has narrated a tradition from Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) that he said, “Any action of Khayanat with the Imam is ‘Soht’.”
There are many types of ‘Soht’. ‘Soht’ includes that which is received from the tyrant rulers, bribe to Qazis, payment for prostitution, wine, alcoholic nabid (a kind of wine), and interest.
“To bribe a Qazi (for giving a favourable judgement) is to disbelieve in Allah the Almighty.” (Khisāl of Sadūq)
A similar kind of tradition is to be found in the bookal-Kāfi, Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) says: “‘Soht’ means the payment for corpse, for dogs and wine. It also denotes the fee paid to a prostitute, the bribe given to a judge and the payment to a Kahin.”[8] (Wasa’il ul--Shia)
Although consumption of every type of Harām is ‘Soht’, some of them are denounced more emphatically and their punishment is more severe. The worst of these is taking bribe. One who accepts bribe is just like a disbeliever and the Holy Prophet (S) has cursed him. The one who takes interest is equated to the one who has made war against Allah (S.w.T.) and the Prophet (S).

Types of bribe

There are Three types of bribes:

(1) Bribe paid to a judge for a favourable judgement.
(2) Bribe for ‘Harām’ work.
(3) Bribe for permitted things.
The first kind of bribe comprises of money etc. paid to a judge so that he maygive a favourable judgement. The judge may also be bribed for pointing out the loopholes whereby one could weaken the position of the opposite party. It is absolutely Harām even if the one who is paying the bribe is right and the judge delivers the correct judgement. The paying and receiving of this type of bribe or whatever may comprise this bribe is also Harām and a Greater sin. A person who pays or accepts such a bribe deserves the curse of Allah (S.w.T.).
The Holy Prophet (S) says: “May Allah curse one whogives a bribe, one who accepts it and one who acts as an agent between them.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
Elsewhere, the Holy Prophet (S) says: “Beware of bribe!It is nothing but disbelief. The one who is involved in bribe will not even smell the fragrance of Paradise.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
Bribe is not only a sin for the guilty but it constitutes assisting in sin, the one who accepts. However if one is compelled to bribe and without it he cannot obtain his rights, it is another matter, but it is still Harām for one who accepts it. Similarly it is also Harām to reach someone by bribing. The one who acts as an arbitrator or agent and takes an active part in negotiating bribe is also a sinner.
This type of bribe is absolutely Harām whether paid in cash or kind. Bribe may also comprise of offering some services to the judge like stitching his clothes free of cost or constructing his house etc. Bribe can even be paid in words. One may praise a judge unduly to please him and thus influence him to give a favourable ruling.

Bribe in the name of khums and gift

Even if a bribe is paid in the name of khums and gift, it is Harām. For example to give someone a gift or a present with the intention of bribing him i.e. with the intention that by giving a gift the beneficiary will act to benefit the giver in some way. Similarly khums and zakat given with the intention of bribing is also Harām. It will not be considered as Khums or Zakat and it will be obligatory for one who has paid Khums or Zakat with such intentions, to pay it once more. Khums and Zakat are to be given with the purest of intentions, that of achieving nearness to Allah (S.w.T.) . There can be no other motive. One of the signs of Qiyāma is mentioned in traditions in the following words: “Bribes will be accepted as gifts.”
The second kind of bribe is the bribe paid to someone, atyrant or an oppressor for inflicting harm on a third person. The Holy Qur’an says: “And do not swallow up your property among yourselves by false means, neither seek to gain access thereby to the judges, so that you may swallow up a part of the property of men wrongfully while you know.” (Surah al-Baqarah 2:188)
In this ayat believers are warned not to use anything obtained illegally and not to use their wealth to bribe those in power in order to obtain anything unlawfully.


Paying a bribe for obtaining ones rights

The third type of bribe is one that is paid for something lawful. Like paying someone in order that he may help in obtaining ones rightful property or to escape from a tyrant. Bribing for lawful things is allowed.
In a tradition Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) was asked about the person who bribes the occupant of a house to vacate it so that the owner may himself use it as his residence. Imam (a.s.) said that there was no harm in it. However the house mentioned in this hadith does not belong to the person who pays the bribe. It is a trust property or a public place like, the mosque, madrasa, lane, by-lane, and bazār etc. Thus if someone is occupying a place in the mosque or a student is living in a room in the public hostel, he can be bribed to vacate it.
Hafsul Amr enquired from Imam ‘Ali an-Naqi (a.s.): “The ruler has appointed agents to purchase our agricultural produce. Is it allowed for us to bribe those agents so that we may remain safe from the ruler’s tyranny?”
Imam (a.s.) replied, “There is no harm in it. You may pay whatever you think fit.”
Then Imam (a.s.) asked: “Do you have to supply lesserquantity of grain to the ruler after you have paid the bribe to these agents?”
“Yes,” said the questioner.
“You have invalidated your bribe (i.e. you have made the bribe Harām),” Imam told him. (Wasa’il ul--Shia)
Thus it is clear that bribing to cause someone to be oppressed is Harām but it is permitted in order to save oneself from oppression.

Accepting a bribe for doing something lawful

It must however be made clear that though it is permitted to gift something for lawful acts or to save oneself from oppression, it is detestable to accept such gifts. Because these gifts bear a close resemblance to bribe. Also, the habit of bribing for lawful things may make a man habitual and he may be inclined to pay bribes for unlawful purposes too. One is prone to error. If a pious person refrains for Makrūh (detestable) bribe he will never be prone to the Harām bribe. The following tradition supports this fact.
“Those are they for whom Allah does not desire that He should purify their hearts; they shall have disgrace in this world, and they shall have a grievous chastisement in the hereafter. (They are) listeners of a lie, devourers of what is forbidden.” (Surah al-Mā’ida 5:41-42)
Explaining this ayat, Amir ul-Mu’minīn ‘Ali (a.s.) says:“It is that person who fulfills the wish of his believing brother and accepts a gift in return.”
Shaykh Ansari says in the book, Makasibul Āmāl:“There are many explanations of this tradition. One of it is that we must absolutely refrain from accepting gifts in return for favours done that we may never fall into the trap of accepting bribe.”


Characteristics of those who eat Harām

A characteristic feature of earnings by Harām means the money and wealth so acquired. It is narrated from Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) that he said, “The madness of (acquiring or constructing) buildings. Mud and water occupies the head of one who earns by unlawful means.” (Bihār al-Anwār)
It means that a person with unlawful earnings is constantly worried about his wealth and strives to convert it into fixed property so that it is not lost. The buildings of mud and water neither benefit the owner in the Hereafter nor do they provide peace in this world. Such a person spends every bit of his wealth for pieces of land. Finally, Allah (S.w.T.) orders the land to swallow all his wealth.
Unlawful gains are harmful both from the worldly point of view as there is no barakat in such gain and also from the spiritual point of view as these form obstacles in the acceptance of acts of worship.
The Holy Prophet (S) says: “When a single morsel ofHarām enters the stomach of a person and becomes a part of his body, the angels of the sky and the earth curse him.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
The Messenger of Allah (S) has also said: “Acts ofworship accompanied by the acquiring of Harām are like buildings that rest on (crumbling) sand.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
They lack a firm foundation and hence are of no use. Such buildings can never remain intact and are soon destroyed.


Invocations are not accepted

The noble Messenger of Allah (S) has remarked, “Prayers of the one who eats a single morsel of Harām are not accepted for forty nights nor are his invocations accepted for forty days. Every piece of flesh that grows by consuming Harām is most deserving of being burnt in hell-fire and even a single morsel consumed causes some growth of flesh.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
The Holy Prophet (S) has also stated, “One who wishes to have his invocations accepted must keep aloof from Harām food and unlawful earnings.” (al-Kāfi)
A man asked the Holy Prophet (S): “I wish for theacceptance of my deeds.” The Prophet (S) told him, “Keep your food purified from Harām and do not let any unlawful thing enter your stomach.” (al-Kāfi)
The Almighty Allah (S.w.T.) revealed to Janabe Isa Ibn Maryam (a.s.):“Inform the oppressors of Bani Israel that they must not call Me and invoke Me as long as they are involved in unlawful earnings. And if they call Me and invoke Me in this condition, I will curse them.” (al-Kāfi)

Hardening of the heart

Whatever man eats is like a seed sown in the earth. If the seed is good it will bear sweet fruits. If the seed is bitter and poisonous, so is the fruit that grows from it. If the food is good and lawful it has beneficial effects on the heart. It is purified from every blemish and impurity. The organs of this person perform good deeds, but if one consumes food obtained through unlawful means it causes the heart to harden. The symptoms are soon obvious. A hard hearted person is unaffected by any kind of preaching and remains absolutely impenitent. Such a man is not moved even when he sees clear injustice. No good can be expected from him. Not a trace of goodness is visible in his dark heart. He refuses to accept what is right and is immune to every kind of moral advice. The tragedy of Karbala is the perfect example of this phenomenon. These are the characteristics clearly pointed out by Imam Husain (a.s.) in his address to the troops of Ibn Sād: “You bellies are filled with unlawful (wealth). Now you will not accept the truth. Why don’t you deal with justice? Why don’t you listen to me?” (Nafasul Mahmūm)
In other words, when a person’s heart becomes hard and darkness occupies it.
During the rule of the Abbasid King Mahdi, there was a Qazinamed Sharīk bin Abdullah. He was an honest and upright Judge, till the time he was summoned by the king. The Abbaside King forced him to choose one from three things:
(1) Either he should accept the post of the Royal Qazi
(2) He should become the teacher of the King’s son
(3) or he should dine with the king, at least once.
The Qazi thought that easiest of the Three was to eat with the king once, so he agreed to dine with King Mahdi. The ruler ordered the royal chef to prepare the best of the dishes. When the Qazi had eaten the food, the cook remarked to his companions, “Now, Qazi Sharīk will never achieve salvation.”
The prediction came to be true. The Harām food affected the Qazi to the extent that he also accepted the other two conditions. He became the special Qazi of the King and the tutor of his children. It is said that Qazi Sharīk used to be very strict and unflinching with the treasurers while obtaining his share from the royal treasury.
One day the treasurer protested, “You have not sold me grain that you act so ruthless in recovering its price.” Qazi Sharīk replied, “Yes, I have sold something more valuable! I have sold my religion.”
One day a tray filled with delicious dishes was sent by Harūn al-Rashīd for Bahlūl. Bahlūl did not accept it. The servants of the king said, “It is not possible to reject the present of the Caliph.” Bahlūl, the wise, pointed towards the stray dogs and said, “Give it to the dogs.”
The servants became angry and said, “You have insulted the royal gifts.” Bahlūl became silent then said, “Be quiet, if the dogs learn that this food is sent by the king, they will not touch it.”


A morsel of Halāl food

Eating Harām gives rise to every type of infamy. Whereas, the Halāl morsel is the cause of every kind of goodness and charity. Numerous traditions praise the acquisition of livelihood through lawful means. For example the Holy Prophet (S) says, “Worship consists of seventy parts and the best part is earnings by lawful means.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
The Messenger of Allah (S) has also said, “When a man eats Halāl food an angel stands over his head and prays for his forgiveness till he finishes eating.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
The Prophet (S) has remarked in a similar vein, “One who strives to earn his livelihood in a lawful manner from morning till night, achieves salvation.” (Safinat’ul-Bihār)
The Holy Prophet (S) states that Allah has said: “Iwill not care on the Day of Qiyāma from which door he enters Hell, the person who does not care from which door he earns money in this world.” (Bihār al-Anwār)
The Prophet of Allah (S) has also mentioned the followingtradition: “One who does nor care from which way he earns wealth in this world will be sent to Hell in Qiyāma and I shall not care from which way he is made to enter it.” (Bihār al-Anwār)


Allah (S.w.T.) does not provide unlawful livelihood

Maybe, those who do not refrain from unlawful earnings are afraid that if they give up this chance they may suffer poverty and deprivation. This is just a false notion. It is merely a satanic thought because it goes against the Divine promise of lawful sustenance repeatedly mentioned in the Qur’an. It is unreasonable, as it is contrary to the numerous traditions of Ahl ul-Bayt (a.s.). The Almighty Allah (S.w.T.) has promised to provide sustenance to each and every creature. The Divine promise is never unfulfilled. Allah (S.w.T.) only tests the believers to see if they strive patiently to acquire lawful livelihood or act impatiently and deviate. Whatever sustenance is decreed is surely received. It is only the impatience of the people and the weakness of their faith that makes them leave the path of lawful earnings and stray towards illegal occupations. When a person does this he fails the test. Allah (S.w.T.) deprives this person of the lawful sustenance that was in his destiny. Allah (S.w.T.) has not decreed for anyone unlawful sustenance.


No one dies without receiving his decreed sustenance

On the occasion of the last Hajj, the Holy Prophet (S)addressed the Muslims in the precincts of the Masjidul Harām: “Know that, the trustworthy Spirit (Jibrīl) has informed that no creature dies till he has received his destined sustenance.


Then fear Allah and do not vie among yourself in earning your livelihood. If there is some delay in receiving your sustenance, it must not be that you pursue it in disobedience to Allah. Verily, Allah has distributed only Halāl sustenance to every creature. He has not destined Harām sustenance to anyone.
Hence one who fears Allah and acts with patience, Allah shallbestow upon him His sustenance through lawful means. But one who abandons purity and takes up Harām methods, a similar amount shall be decreased from his lawful sustenance. He shall be made to account for his Harām earnings on the Day of Qiyāma. Allah the Almighty has prohibited it in the following words: “...and do not substitute worthless (things) for (their) good (ones)...” (Surah an-Nisā’ 4:2)
It should not be that in a hurry to obtain livelihood you obtain it through illegal ways, before Allah provides you with the Halāl sustenance that He had decreed for you.” (al-Kāfi)

Deprived of Halāl food

One day, Amir ul-Mu’minīn ‘Ali (a.s.) reached the mosque and alighted from his mule. He entrusted his animal to a person and entered the mosque. The man pulled out the saddle and ran away leaving the mule unattended.
When ‘Ali (a.s.) returned, he was holding two dirhams. He intended to give them to the man who had looked after the mule. He found the mule without the saddle. After reaching home he gave the same two dirhams to his slave for the purchase of another saddle. The slave went to the bazār found the same rein. It came to be known that the thief had sold the stolen rein for two dirhams. It was the same amount that he could have earned in a lawful way. When the slave related the whole incident to ‘Ali (a.s.), he said, “By abandoning patience man converts his Halāl sustenance into Harām. Though he does not receive more than what is in his destiny.” (Lailail-Akhbār)

Oct 27, '10 2:29 PM
for everyone
We all know that one of the most important factors of Islam's advancement was the perfect conduct of the Prophet of Islam (SAW). This fact is stated in the Glorious Qur'an where Allah Says:
"And had you been rough, hard-hearted, they would certainly have dispersed from around you." (3:159)
The Prophet of Allah (SAW) treated all people equally. His deep and indescribable love for humanity was perfectly manifested in his angelic being. He attended to all Muslim's needs equally.
"And the Messenger of Allah (SAW) divided his moments between his companions; he would attend to this and attend to that equally." (Rawdha  Al-Kafi, p.268)
The Prophet (SAW) also condemned ill-nature; he repeatedly said:
"Ill-nature is evil, and the worst of you are those who are ill-natured." (Nahjul-Fasahah, p.371)
He also said:
"O sons of Abdul-Muttalib, surely you will not be able to satisfy people with your money, therefore, meet them with cheerful faces and joyful conduct." (Wasail Ash-Shi'a, vol.2, p.222)
Anas ibn Malik (Prophet's servant), used to say when he remembered his (Prophet's) excellent traits:
"I have served the Prophet (SAW) for ten years; during this time he has never said, `woe' (as if complaining) to me, regardless of what I did or did not do." (Fada'il Al-Khamsah, vol.1, p.119)
Furthermore, good conduct and cheerfulness are the factors that prolong life. Imam Ja'far As-Sadiq (AS) said in this regard: "Kindness and good manners make land flourish and prolong lives." (Wasail Ash-Shi'a, vol.2, p.221)
Dr. Sanderson has written this on the subject:
"Kindness is an important factor in treating and preventing illness. Most medication result in unwanted side effects along with a temporary cure while kindness causes everlasting cures to all parts of the body... kindness moves all powers of the body. Blood circulation in those who enjoy good manners is excellent, and their breathing is better...." (Pirozi Fikr)
There is a beautiful point in Imam As-Sadiq's (AS) statement. He says that there is a direct relationship between kindness and good manners and stated that they are among the factors that prolong life. The reason behind this is that kind people enjoy a sense of happiness and satisfaction, thus, both kindness and good manners have the same desired effects. He also considered these traits elements for achieving happiness, when he said:
"Part of man's happiness is his good manners." (Mustadrak Al-Wasail, vol.2, p.83)
Samuel Smiles added on the same topic:
"Good manners and emotional balance have their effects on man's development and happiness just like other powers and instincts do. As a matter of fact, individuals' happiness is greatly related to their affections and good manners." (Akhlaq)
In addition, good manners make life easier and increase subsistence and harmony. Imam Ali Ibn Abi Talib (AS) in this regard, said:
"Good manners bestow subsistence lavishly and make friends (more) intimate." (Ghurar Al-Hekam, p. 279)
The Honorable Messenger of Allah (SAW) said:
"The most important traits which will lead my nation to Paradise are fear of Allah and good manners." (Wasail Al-Shia', vol.2, p.221)
Oct 27, '10 2:24 PM
for everyone

Funny, Isn't it?

* Funny how a £10 note looks so big when you take it to the mosque, but so small when you take it to the market.

* Funny how long it takes to do Zikr (remember Allah) for an hour, but how quickly a team plays 60 minutes of football.
* Funny how long a couple of hours spent at the mosque are, but how short they are when watching a movie.
* Funny how we can't think of anything to say when we pray, but don't have difficulty thinking of things to talk about to a friend.
* Funny how we get thrilled when a football game goes into extra itime, but we complain when a lecture at the centre is longer than the regular time.
* Funny how hard it is to read a chapter of the Holy Quran, but how easy it is to read 100 pages of a best selling novel.
* Funny how people want to get a front seat at any game or concert, but scramble to get a back row at mosque so that they can scramble out fast.
* Funny how we need 2 or 3 weeks advance notice to fit a mosque event into our schedule, but can adjust our schedule for other events at the last moment.
* Funny how hard it is for people learn a simple preaching well enough to tell others, but how simple it is for the same people to understand and repeat gossip.
* Funny how we believe what the newspaper says, but question what the Quran says.
* Funny how everyone wants to go to heaven provided they do not have to believe, or to think, or to say, or do anything.

Oct 27, '10 2:07 PM
for everyone
Tony Blair's sister-in-law converts to Islam
Islam Times - Lauren Booth, Tony Blair's sister-in-law has converted to Islam after having what she describes as a "holy experience" during a visit to Iran...
Tony Blair
Islam Times reports from Guardian:Journalist and broadcaster Lauren Booth, 43 – Cherie Blair's sister – now wears a hijab whenever she leaves her home, prays five times a day and visits her local mosque whenever she can.

She decided to become a Muslim six weeks ago after visiting the shrine of Fatima al-Masumeh in the city of Qum.

"It was a Tuesday evening and I sat down and felt this shot of spiritual morphine, just absolute bliss and joy," she said in an interview today.

When she returned to Britain, she decided to convert immediately.

Before her spiritual awakening in Iran, she had been "sympathetic" to Islam and has spent considerable time working in Palestine, she said, adding that she hoped her conversion would help Blair change his presumptions about Islam.
Oct 27, '10 1:55 PM
for everyone
n important message to circulate!
We all carry our mobile phones with names & numbers stored in its memory but nobody, other than ourselves, knows which of these numbers belong to our closest family or friends.. 

If we were to be involved in an accident or were taken ill, the people attending us would have our mobile phone but wouldn't know who to call. Yes, there are hundreds of numbers stored but which one is the contact person in case of an emergency? Hence this "ICE" (In Case of Emergency) Campaign... 


The concept of "ICE" is catching on quickly. It is a method of contact during emergency situations. As cell phones are carried by the the majority of the population, all you need to do is store the number of a contact person or persons who should be contacted during emergency under the name "ICE" ( In Case Of Emergency).

The idea was thought up by a paramedic who found that when he went to the scenes of accidents, there were always mobile phones with patients, but they didn't know which number to call. He therefore thought that it would be a good idea if there was a nationally recognized name for this purpose. In an emergency situation, Emergency Service personnel and hospital Staff would be able to quickly contact the right person by simply dialing the number you have stored as "ICE."

For more than one contact name simply enter ICE1, ICE2 and ICE3 etc.. A great idea that will make a difference!

Let's spread the concept of ICE by storing an ICE number in our mobile phones today! 

Please forward this. It won't take too many "forwards" before everybody will know about this. It really could save your life, or put a loved one's mind at rest.

Remember:- 
ICE will speak for you when you are not able to... 
 
 
Oct 27, '10 1:22 PM
for everyone
An interesting fact about October 2010: This October has 5 fridays, 5 saturdays and 5 sundays, all in 1 month. It happens once in 823 years.
Oct 27, '10 5:47 AM
for everyone
STONE  &  SAND
 
 TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING 
THROUGH THE DESERT  . 
DURING SOME POINT OF THE 
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN 
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND 
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE 
IN THE FACE
 

THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
 
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT 
SAYING ANYTHING, 
WROTE IN THE SAND
 , 

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
 
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE
 . 

THEY KEPT ON WALKING, 
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS, 
WHERE THEY DECIDED 
TO TAKE A BATH
 

THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN 
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE 
MIRE AND STARTED DROWNING, 
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM. 


AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM 
THE NEAR DROWNING, 
HE WROTE ON A STONE:
 

'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND 
SAVED MY LIFE'
 

THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED 
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND 
ASKED HIM, 'AFTER I HURT YOU, 
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW, 
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?' 

THE FRIEND REPLIED 
'WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US 
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN 
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF 
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.
   

BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES  SOMETHING GOOD FOR US, 
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE 
WHERE NO WIND 
CAN EVER ERASE IT' 

LEARN TO WRITE 
YOUR HURTS IN 
THE SAND AND TO 
CARVE YOUR 
BENEFITS IN STONE. 

THEY SAY IT TAKES A
 
MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL 
PERSON,
   

AN HOUR TO
 
APPRECIATE THEM,
    

A DAY
 
TO LOVE THEM,
 

BUT THEN
 , 

AN ENTIRE LIFE 
TO FORGET THEM.
 

SEND THIS TO 
THE PEOPLE YOU'LL NEVER 
FORGET.
     

I JUST DID..
 

IF YOU DON'T 
SEND IT TO ANYONE, 
IT MEANS YOU'RE IN A 
HURRY AND THAT YOU'VE
FORGOTTEN YOUR FRIENDS. 

TAKE THE TIME TO LIVE! 


DO NOT VALUE THE THINGS 
YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE, BUT VALUE 
WHO
 YOU HAVE KNOWN IN
 YOUR LIFE!

AND IF I HAPPEN TO GET IT BACK, 
THEN I KNOW MY PLACE IN YOUR LIFE
 

Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

(sent by bro Najmuddin) 
Oct 27, '10 5:40 AM
for everyone
Daily Skin Care Routine For Dry Skin

People are more conscious about the way they look. They are especially particular about their face. There are different skin types that face different problems. When you are choosing soap, it is very important to keep your skin type in mind. The best soap for dry skin would be the one that is entirely free from chemicals, preservatives and even perfumes. There are soaps that tend to make your skin dry. Therefore, if you have dry skin then this type of soap will not be suitable for you. Some of the soaps also consist of harmful chemicals, which can damage your skin. Sebum is skin’s natural oil and if your skin lacks sebum then it gets dry. If you have dry skin then you should get a moisturizing soap that is not harsh on your skin. You can also choose natural soaps. These contain cocoa butter, avocado, Aloe Vera and other vegetable oils, which are very beneficial for dry skin. Some of the soaps are specially designed for dry skin. If you are not much aware about different kinds of soaps then you can simply get a soap that is especially for dry skin.

Soaps that lack glycerin are not good for dry skin. Therefore, if you have dry skin then before buying soap you should check the ingredients of the soap and look for glycerin content. There are natural soaps that contain glycerin. Do not go on the claims that many of the soaps make. Some soap asserts to be herbal or natural but they actually contain harmful chemicals. Natural soap not only cleans your face’s skin but also removes the impurities and makes your skin soft and supple. Some of them also claim of lavender content, but in place of real essential oil, they contain scented oil that smells like lavender. You can also go for homemade soaps that are made by adding different types of oils and herbs to a soap base. This type of soap is good for dry skin as you can add contents that are good for dry skin and can help in healing it. This type of soap is not harmful for your skin as you can add different ingredients to it according to your skin type. It is very important to select the right type of soap as it help in keeping your skin healthy for a long time.

There are numerous causes of dry skin. These can range from hormone imbalance to poor diet as well. Using the wrong kind of soap and skin diseases and even medication can lead to dry skin. Nevertheless, if you are particular about skin care then you should follow some important tips for dry skin on face. Living with dry skin is not difficult but finding the right method of treating it is difficult. There are some tips that you can try if you want to get rid of dry skin. The first and the foremost tip, is to use a good soap that contain all the essential oils, which are necessary to cure dry skin. You can also use a light scrub to remove the dry skin on your face. Add a few drops of limejuice and half tsp of glycerin to half tsp of Vitamin E oil and then apply this mixture to your face. All these contents are good for dry skin. It provides your skin all the elements that it requires to eliminate dry skin. You can also apply different mixtures of such ingredients, which are good for your dry skin. Ingredients like olive oil, glycerin, milk cream are very good in healing dry skin. In case you do not have enough time to make such mixtures then you can apply whole milk, then just leave it for ten minutes, and later wash with cold water. If you do this on a regular basis then this will cure your dry skin within a very short period.

It is also suggested to moisturize in the correct manner. Choose creams and other products that consist of natural oil and other ingredients, which are suitable for dry skin. Natural moisturizers and lotions are very good for dry skin and protect your skin from other problems like aging. If your problem aggravates then it is important to consult a skin specialist. You should be very particular before choosing any product for your skin, especially if you suffer from any skin disease. Try eliminating those products that makes your skin drier. Washing your face before going to bed will also help you. It is important to know that hot water can make your skin drier, so it is suggested to wash your face with cold water. If you follow these tips then you will be able to heal your dry skin easily and will look more beautiful.

Oct 27, '10 5:39 AM
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Skin Whitening Tips: Get Fair Skin Fast

A dream to have fairer complexion and achieving it is universal  between both the sexes. Skin lightening products are popular among Asians, hence in this million dollar industry everyone have thrown their hats into the ring. Rat race among branded as well as cheap local brands is on.

Problems related with hyper pigmentation like spots, freckles, acne scars, melasma, uneven skin tone and other dark areas are common. Relying on lightening, bleaching etc is effective and it has to be incorporated in lifestyle along with other measures so as to bring back the self esteem.

Here are some simple home remedies for skin whitening that you can do to lighten the skin tone and get a lighter complexion. However, they must be done regularly and best results are obtained if they are inculcated as a part of daily routine.

Useful Skin Whitening Tips:

    * Many establish cosmetic companies produce their skin lightening face washes, facial gels, creams, lotions and pack to whiten the skin. You can choose any of them for your skin. They are helpful in lighten the skin tone to few shades.
    * If everything from the same brand range is applied for skin whitening than it helps more as they have same ingredients for different purposes. Use the same brand of face wash, lotion, day cream, soap and night cream to target the darkness of your skin.
    * If you want to go for advanced treatments then you can consult a cosmetologist who gives peels to your skin to make it appear lighter. But some of these treatments are not suitable for sensitive skin.
    * Bleaching helps the skin to remove scars, reduce sun tan and pigmentation and clears the skin to make it look lighter in shade. But it should be done carefully as if the ingredients have not mixed in proper proportion or you put it more than the applicable time, it might burn your skin. These days’ bleaches are available in the market for sensitive skin so people who have sensitive skin should choose them.
    * Herbal bleach too is a good option. One can learn applying bleach in a right way on the face and body from a professional beautician and then can do it oneself.
    * Some of the creams and lotions from the skin whitening range of L’Oreal Paris are very helpful in reducing pigmentation, brown spots and prevents discoloration of the skin tone. They make it smooth, even and much lighter in shade without any side effects.
    * Even while choosing a whitening cream or lotion, ones should keep the skin type in mind and should buy them according to the skin type. As some of them might not suit the oily skin or some might no help dry skin.
    * Prevention can be taken to stop skin from further darkening-always apply good sunscreen lotion on skin when going in sun. Use waterproof sunscreen lotion while going to swimming. One needs to reapply the sunscreen lotion on the skin every 30 minutes if one is staying directly in the sun. Sun makes the maximum damage to your skin and skin, which is naturally white, too gets tanned and dark if stays directly in the sun without any protection.

Other Suggestions for Skin Whitening:

    * Drink at least 3 to 5 liters of water everyday. Water will trash out toxin from our body. Fewer toxins in our body will produce better skin structure.
    * Practice healthy diets. Go for fresh and less calories food. Avoid taking oily and high cholesterol food.
    * Use quality sunscreen when going out. This is to protect your skin from the damage of UV sunlight.

Oct 27, '10 5:35 AM
for everyone
ICE PALACE IN CHINA NICE PHOTOS




Funmails 
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Funmails 
Funmails 
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Funmails
Agar aurat par hath uthaye to Zalim, 
 Aurat se Pit jaye to Buzdil,
  Aurat ko kisi ke 7 dekh ker ladai kare to Jealous, 
 Chup rahe to Be-gairat, 
 Ghar se bahar rahe to Awara,
  Ghar me rahe to Nakara, 
 Bachon ko dante to Jaalim, 
 Na dante to Laparwah,
 
Aurat ko naukri se roke to Shakki Mijaz,
  Na rokey to biwi ki kamai khanewala,
  Maa ki mane to Maa ka Chamcha,
 Biwi ki sune to Joru ka Gulam...
 
 Na Jane Kab Aayega, 
"HAPPY MEN'S DAY"
 
BEST REGARDS AND HAVE A NICE DAY
(sent by bro Najmuddin)
Oct 26, '10 2:26 PM
for everyone
WORD SCRABBLE 
FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE
When you rearrange the letters:
FLIT ON CHEERING ANGEL

DILIP VENGSARKAR
When you rearrange the letters:
SPARKLING DRIVE

BARA THEDA
When you rearrange the letters:
ARAB DEATH

PRINCESS DIANA
When you rearrange the letters:
END IS A CAR SPIN

MONICA LEWINSKY
When you rearrange the letters:
NICE SILKY WOMAN

DORMITORY
When you rearrange the letters:
DIRTY ROOM

PRESBYTERIAN
When you rearrange the letters:
BEST IN PRAYER

ASTRONOMER
When you rearrange the letters:
MOON STARER

DESPERATION
When you rearrange the letters:
A ROPE ENDS IT

THE EYES
When you rearrange the letters:
THEY SEE

GEORGE BUSH
When you rearrange the letters:
HE BUGS GORE

THE MORSE CODE
When you rearrange the letters:
HERE COME DOTS

SLOT MACHINES
When you rearrange the letters:
CASH LOST IN ME

ANIMOSITY
When you rearrange the letters:
IS NO AMITY

ELECTION RESULTS
When you rearrange the letters:
LIES - LET'S RECOUNT

SNOOZE ALARMS
When you rearrange the letters:
ALAS! NO MORE Z’S

A DECIMAL POINT
When you rearrange the letters:
IM A DOT IN PLACE

THE EARTHQUAKES
When you rearrange the letters:
THAT QUEER SHAKE

ELEVEN PLUS TWO
When you rearrange the letters:
TWELVE PLUS ONE

AND FOR THE GRAND FINALE
MOTHER-IN-LAW
When you rearrange the letters:
WOMAN HITLER
Oct 26, '10 2:23 PM
for everyone
 Self-Appraisal
A little boy went into a drug store, reached for a soda carton and pulled it over to the telephone. He climbed onto the carton so that he could reach the buttons on the phone and proceeded to punch in ten-digits (phone numbers).
The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:
Boy: ‘Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?
Woman: (at the other end of the phone line): ‘I already have someone to cut my lawn.’
Boy: ‘Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts your lawn now.’
Woman: I’m very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting my lawn.
Boy: (with more perseverance): ‘I’ll even sweepyour curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you will have the prettiest lawn in all of Palm beach, Florida.’
Woman: No, thank you.
With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver.
The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy.
Store Owner: ‘Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job.’
Boy: ‘No thanks’.
Store Owner: But you were really pleading for one.
Boy: No Sir, I was just checking my performance at the job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady, I was talking to!'
This is what we call ‘Self Appraisal’ ...
Oct 26, '10 2:14 PM
for everyone
Santa: I have swallowed a key.
Doctor: When?
Santa: 3 months back!
Doctor: What were you doing till now?
Santa: I was using duplicate key, now I have lost it too.


A lady calls Santa for repairing door bell. Banta doesn’t turns up for 4 days.
Lady calls again, Banta replies: I’m coming daily since 4 days, I press the bell but no one comes out. 


Lady to inspector Santa: My husband went to buy potatoes 5 days ago, he hasn’t come back yet!
Santa: Why don’t you cook something else?


Banta’s wife dies. He is calm, but his wife’s lover is crying furiously...
Finally, Banta consoles him saying “Don’t worry buddy, I will marry again”.


Santa keeps the door open while bathing.
Banta asking him why is he doing that?
Santa says “I’m afraid that someone might watch me from the key hole”. 


Banta apni pregnant wife ko pizza hut le jaa raha tha.
Santa: Oye, apni pregnant wife ko itne dard mein hospital ki jagah pizza hut kyun leja raha hai?
Banta: Kyun key pizza hut mein “Delivery Free” hai.


Banta enters shop shouts, “Where is my free gift with this oil?”
Shopkeeper: Iske saath koi gift nahin hai bhai saab?
Banta: Oye ispe likha to hai “CHOLESTROL FREE”.


One tourist from U.S.A. asks Santa: Any great man born in this village?
Santa: No sir, only small Babies!!!


Teacher: A for?
Banta: Apple
Teacher: Jor se bolo?
Banta: Jay mata di.


American says: “US mein shaadi e-mail se hoti hai..”
Santa says: “India me to.. shaadi sirf fe-mail (female) se hoti hai...!!!”


Banta orders pizza.
Waiter: Sir should I cut it into 4 pieces or into 8 pieces?
Banta: 4 hi kar dena, 8 khaye nahi jayenge.


Santa dials a number. A girl receives the call.
Santa: Who are you?
Girl: Seeta here.
Santa: Maine to Chandigarh phone kiya tha, yeh to Ayodhya chala gaya.


Banta: Truck dekhkar tum kaampte kyon ho?
Santa: Ek truck driver meri biwi lekar bhaag gaya tha, har baar lagta hai
jaise usko vapas karne aya hai.


Pathan sitting on the top of the mountain and studying.
When a person asked what he was doing?
He replied, Oye! Higher studies yaar.


2 pathans were fighting after exam.
Sir: Why are you fighting?
1st pathan: This fool left the answer sheet blank.
Sir: So what?
2nd pathan: Even i did the same thing, now teacher will think that we both copied.


Santa: I’m very kanjoos, I went 2 honeymoon alone saved 1/2 money.
Banta: You are nothing I saved all my money.
Santa: How?
Banta: My friend was going and I sent my wife with him.


Santa goes to Kaun Banega Karodpati show. Amitabh Bachchan asks him, “Santaji aap kiske saath yahan aaye hai?”
Santa: Pitaaji ke saath.
Amitabh: Aap ke pitaaji ka shubhnaam?
Santa: Hmmmm.... yes.
Amitabh: Ammmm.... kya naam hai aapke pitaji ka?
Santa: Hmmmm... OK.
Amitabh: Are Santaji, main aapse aapke pitaji ka naam poochh raha hoon.
Santa: Pehle mujhe 4 options to do!!!


Banta: All of the thrill is gone from my marriage.
Santa: Why not add some intrigue to your life and have an affair?
Banta: But what if my wife finds out?
Santa: Heck, this is a new age we live in. Go ahead and just tell her about it.
Banta goes home to his wife and says, “Preeto, I think an affair will help bring us closer together”.
Preeto, “Forget it, I’ve already tried that. It didn’t work.”


The headmaster of a school reprimanded Banta. ‘It has been reported that you called your history teacher gadhaa (Ass). You are fined Rs.50.’
‘Sir, would I be fined if I called a gadhaa my guruji?’ asks Banta.
‘Surely not’, replied the headmaster.
Banta: ‘That’s fine, Guruji!’. 


A Manager of the branch bank found he had no space left to store old records.
He wrote to his regional manager Banta to for permission to destroy old records.
Banta Singh replied back: “I do not mind your destroying old records but please make sure you keep photo-copies of all the destroyed papers”. 


Santa and Banta decide to go on picnic one day. When they get there, they realize they’ve forgotten the whisky.
Banta says he’ll get it if Santa promises not to eat the chicken till he returns.
Now, Santa waits and waits till a whole day goes by, when Santa says to himself: Come on, I’m hungry. He is not going to come back so let me eat the chicken anyway.
Suddenly Banta pops up from behind a tree and says: If you do that, I won’t go!


Banta showed his palm to a palmist. He examined the lines on Banta’s hand & said, A beautiful girl will come into your life, but be very careful.
Why should I have to be careful? asked Banta. She should be careful of her life. I drive a Blueline bus!



Walking up to a department store’s fabric counter, a pretty girl asked, “I want to buy this material for a new dress. How much does it cost?”
“Only one kiss per meter madam,” replied Banta (clerk).
“That’s fine,” replied the girl. “I’ll take five meters.”
“Five meters only?”, asked Banta “Hmmmmm..”, girl thinks for a moment and said, “OK, give me ten meters”.
With expectation and anticipation written all over his face, Banta hurriedly measured out and wrapped the cloth, then held it out teasingly.
The girl snapped up the package and pointed to a little old man standing beside her and said “Grandpa will pay the bill”.
Oct 26, '10 2:07 PM
for everyone
Indian Hell
An Indian dies and goes to hell. There he finds that there is a different hell for each country. He goes first to the German hell and asks “What do they do here?” He is told “First they put you in an electric chair for an hour. Then they lay you on a bed of nails for another hour. Then the German devil comes in and whips you for the rest of the day.”
The man does not like the sound of that at all, so he moves on. He checks out the USA hell as well as the Russian hell and many more. He discovers that they are all more or less the same as the German hell.
Then he comes to the Indian hell and finds that there is a very long line of people waiting to get in. Amazed he asks “What do they do here?”
He is told “First they put you in an electric chair for an hour. Then they lay you on a bed of nails for another hour. Then the Indian devil comes in and whips you for the rest of the day.”
But that is exactly the same as all the other hells - why are there so many people waiting to get in? “Because maintenance is so bad that the electric chair does not work, someone has stolen all the nails from the bed, and the devil is a former Government servant, so he comes in, signs the register and then goes to the cafeteria...”

Oct 26, '10 2:04 PM
for everyone
Politics In Tunnel
Manmohan Singh, George W. Bush, Aishwarya Rai and Sonia Gandhi were traveling in a train. The train suddenly goes through a tunnel and it gets completely dark. Suddenly there is a kissing sound and then a slap! The train comes out of the tunnel. Sonia and Manmohan are sitting there looking perplexed. Bush is bent over holding his face, which is red from an apparent slap. All of them remain diplomatic and nobody says anything.
Sonia is thinking: “This guy (Bush) is all crazy after Aishwarya. Bush must have tried to kiss her in the tunnel. Very proper that she slapped him”.
Aishwarya is thinking: “Bush must have moved to kiss me, and kissed Sonia instead and got slapped.”
Bush is thinking: “Damn it! Manmohan must have tried to kiss Aishwarya, she thought it was me and slapped me.”
Manmohan Singh is thinking: “If this train goes through another tunnel, I could make another kissing sound and slap Bush again.”
Singh is King!   Singh is King!!   Singh is King!!!

Oct 26, '10 3:02 AM
for everyone
A priest offered a Nun a lift.

She got in and crossed her legs, forcing her gown to reveal a leg. The priest nearly had an accident.

After controlling the car, he stealthily wanted to fondle her
The nun said, ‘Father, remember Psalm 129?’

The priest removed his hand. But, changing gears, he again tried to fondle her

The nun once again said, ‘Father, rememberPsalm 129?’

The priest apologized ‘Sorry sister, but the flesh is weak.’

Arriving at the convent, the nun sighed heavily and went on her way.

On his arrival at the church, the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129. It said, ‘Go forth and seek, further up, you will find glory.’

Moral of the story:
If you are not well informed in your job, you might miss a great opportunity.
Oct 26, '10 2:58 AM
for everyone
A little bird was flying south for the winter. It was so cold the bird froze and she fell to the ground into a large field.

While she was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on her.

As the frozen bird laid there in the pile of cow dung, she began to realize how warm it was.

The dung was actually thawing her out!

She lays there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.

A passing cat hears the bird singing and comes to investigate.

Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug her out and ate her.

Morals of the story:
[1] Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.
[2] Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.
[3] And when you’re in deep shit, keep your mouth shut! 
Oct 26, '10 2:53 AM
for everyone
A Turkey was chatting with a Bull.

‘I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree’ sighed the Turkey, ‘but I haven’t got the energy.’ ‘Well, why don’t you nibble on some of my droppings?’ replied the Bull. They’re packed with nutrients.’

The Turkey pecked at a lump of dung, and found it actually gave her enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree.

The next day, after eating some more dung, she reached the second branch.

Finally after a fourth night, the Turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree..

She was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot her out of the tree.

Moral of the story:
Bull Shit might get you to the top, but it won’t help you stay there for long.