Tuesday, 27 November 2012



Exercise for the heart is vital for promoting circulation and strengthening heart function. Sedentary life is counterproductive to good circulation. Making it a habit to include moderate cardiovascular exercise in your regular routine will greatly help reduce heart problems.

Effective moderate exercise for the heart includes walking briskly, general calisthenics, sports such as table tennis and swimming with moderate effort, cycling at a moderate speed, as well as canoeing and rowing at a speed of about 2 to 4 miles per hour. As you can see, exercising for heart wellness doesn't necessarily mean that you have to rush to get the best gym membership, all you need to do is look for a physical activity that you enjoy doing. As you do more, you increase your fitness levels!

Here are some simple ways on how you can exercise by increasing your activity levels. Yes, I am talking about everyday activities that you can increase to enhance your heart fitness.

1. Opting for the stairs or walking up escalators to tone buttocks and legs.

2. Instead of driving, walk to the shops or on your way to work. If you did groceries, carry the bags home to give your arms a nice workout.

3. You can choose to get off the train or the bus earlier. This will give you the perfect opportunity to walk a bit.

4. Walk short miles or use the bicycle instead of using the car.

5. Make the most out of your lunch break. Opt to go for a stroll.

If it's not possible for you to do some cardiovascular exercises in 30 minutes straight, you can choose to divide the time into manageable chunks. For instance, you can take a 5-minute walk to the shops and back to your home or take a 10 minute walk to and from the bus stop to school or to your workplace.

You can also do some exercise for the heart while you do some household chores! Washing the windows, ironing clothes, doing the laundry, gardening and vaccuming also count as exercise. You can use the weekends as an opportunity to stay active. From busy shopping trips to country walks and health spas to leisure centers, there is a wide range of activities and venues that you can choose from.

China Plans Huge Buses That Can DRIVE OVER Cars (PHOTOS)

China has overtaken the United States as the world's biggest producer of greenhouse gases and biggest energy consumer.
But the country is also thinking in big and bold ways when it comes to how it will reduce pollution and a new plan to build a "straddling bus" is among the most space-age schemes yet.
In an effort to go green and relieve congestion without widening roads, the Shenzhen Huashi Future ParkingEquipment company is developing a "3D Express Coach" (also known as a "three-dimensional fast bus").
The innovation will allow cars less than 2 meters high to travel underneath the upper level of the vehicle, which will be carrying passengers (PHOTOS).
According to China Hush, the 6-meter-wide 3D Express Coach will be powered by a combination of electricity and solar energy, and will be able to travel up to 60 kilometers per hour carrying some 1200 to 1400 passengers.
The first 115 miles of track is set for construction in Beijing's Mentougou district starting in late 2010. The Chairman of the Huashi Future Parking Equipment company boasts it will take only a year and 500 million yuan (around $73 million) to build the futuristic transportation system.


The innovation will allow cars less than 2 meters high to travel underneath the upper level of the vehicle, which will be carrying passengers (PHOTOS).
According to China Hush, the 6-meter-wide 3D Express Coach will be powered by a combination of electricity and solar energy, and will be able to travel up to 60 kilometers per hour carrying some 1200 to 1400 passengers.
The first 115 miles of track is set for construction in Beijing's Mentougou district starting in late 2010. The Chairman of the Huashi Future Parking Equipment company boasts it will take only a year and 500 million yuan (around $73 million) to build the futuristic transportation system.




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Aug 23, '10 4:57 AM
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Eye Problems and Eye Care Tips

For children, an eye exam before the age of six is always the best. Most of the school screenings are very good but there are times that some subtle problems are present that can become much larger issues in the event that they are missed. The window of opportunity to fix any of those problems is known to close around the age of eight or nine. In the event that everything is normal, then the exams are going to be every three to five years if that is acceptable.

Diabetic retinopathy is the diabetic eye disease that is most common and it is also the main underlying cause of blindness within adults in America. Your good vision is going to depend upon having a healthy retina. Even though diabetic retinopathy might not cause any changes to your vision immediately, over time the disease can develop into a worse condition and may cause you to lose your vision. Normally, this condition will affect both of the eyes.

Eye Care Tips: -

* While writing with the right hand, ensure light is on the left side so that the shadow does not fall on the writing material.
*Drink lots of water. This is indeed one of the effective eye care tips.
*If you have developed dirk circles under eyes then put slices of cucumber and potato to treat them.
* Soak Amla in water overnight. Strain it and use the water washing the eyes. It will provide a healthy comfort to the eyes.
* Use an umbrella or sunglasses to avoid prolonged exposure to sunlight.
* Soaking cotton in lukewarm milk and placing it on the eyes also gives a soothing relief to tired eyes.
*Give a break to your eyes every 20 minutes this will help improve your productivity too.
*Make it a practice to relax the eye muscles by closing it at fixed intervals daily. Close it and think something pleasant.
*Red, itch eyes can be treated by splashing water mixed with salt. It cures the eye infections.
* If the eye tends to be puffy, take a nap for a short span, it will help.
* Keep away from lamps that produce heat.

Natural Treatment for Eyes: -

Black Eyes: - Apply an ice pack or a cold compress for 15 minutes once each hour for 4 or 5 hours.
Droopy Eyelids: - For immediate, temporary relief, chill 2 teaspoons in ice water and place them over your closed eyelids. If weakened muscles are the cause, increase your dietary protein and add supplements of vitamin C, bioflavonoid, and vitamin E.
Dark Circles: - Dark circles are caused by lack of sleep, fatigue, genetics, poor circulation of blood, or illness. You can read preventive methods and Under Eye Remedies to get rid off dark circles.
Dry Eyes: - Inadequate nutrition or lack of humidity in desert-dry air or overheated rooms may instigate itching and burning not caused by allergy or eyestrain.
Aug 22, '10 2:20 PM
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A GOOD FOOD COOKING SITE :-

vahrehvah.com and sulekha.com
Aug 22, '10 12:55 PM
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PARADISE

In the name of God Most Gracious Most Merciful



Holy Qur’an:

Garden of Eternity, which they will enter: beneath them flow pleasant rivers: therein they will have all they wish: thus doth God reward the righteous. 16:31

Holy Qur’an:

God has promised to Believers, men and women, Gardens under which rivers flow, to dwell there, and beautiful mansions in Gardens of everlasting bliss.

But the greatest bliss is the Good Pleasure of God. The Peak of Eloquence Imam Ali said If you take a glance at Paradise you will begin to hate the pleasures of this life. The life after death takes two forms.

One is the life in Hell for those who perform evil deeds. The second is the life in Paradise for the people who did righteous deeds. The word Paradise is used for the true bliss of the righteous. Since Paradise’s blessings cannot be comprehended or perceived by our physical senses, then why does the Qur’an refer to Paradise as a place of Gardens in which rivers flow? These two descriptions of the gardens and rivers states what has happened in the past compared to the materialization in the Hereafter according to the spirituality of the present life. The idea that faith, which is the water of spiritual life, is converted to rivers, the good deeds, which come from faith, are the seeds that grow the beautiful Gardens of Paradise.
Aug 22, '10 12:50 PM
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The Holy Prophet of Islam (SAW) has said:

"These hearts, just like iron, become rusted and the way to remove this
(clean this rust from the hearts) is by the recitation of the Quran."


Irshaade Quloob; page 78

Aug 22, '10 12:48 PM
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The 8th Holy Imam, Imam Ali Redha(AS) has said:

"Do not disregard the words of Allah(SWT), and do not seek guidance from other than Him, for then you will go astray."
Uyoon al-Akhbar  Vol 2,  Page 57

Aug 22, '10 12:47 PM
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Imam as-Sadiq (AS) has said:

"Three things will complain to Allah (SWT) (on the Day of Judgement): a
deserted Masjid in which the people of the town did not recite Salat in it;
an Aalim who is among the ignorant ones; and the Quran which was not read and left for dust to collect on it."

Usool-e-Kaafi
vol 2, page 413

Aug 22, '10 12:45 PM
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Imam al-Baqir(AS) has said:

"O Sa'd, learn the Quran, for it comes on the Day of Judgement in the best of forms.  It will pass through each rank of the masses of the believers, the martyrs, the Prophets, and the ranks of the angels; and all of them will say: 'This is brighter than us,' until the Messenger of Allah will introduce it."

Adaabus Salat taken from Usool-e-Kaafi
vol 4, page 394
Aug 22, '10 12:43 PM
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Imam Sadiq(AS) has said:

"It is good that when one who is reciting the Quran reaches an ayah in the Quran in which there is asking for something, or that of punishment, then at that time, one should ask from Allah(SWT) the best wish (desire) that he has, and similarly one should ask (Allah for) protection from the fire of hell and the punishment."
Usool-e-Kaafi
vol 3, page 1-3

Aug 22, '10 12:31 PM
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Clemency and suppression of anger stand for self-possession in situations that arouse anger. They are noble traits—they indicate self-excellence and result in affection and amicability:

(Among) the servants of the Beneficent Allah are those who walk gently on the earth and when addressed by the ignorant ones, their only response is, “Peace be with you." (25:63)"

Virtue and evil are not equal. If you replace evil habits by virtuous ones, you will certainly find that your enemies will become your intimate friends. Only those who exercise patience and who have been granted a great share of Allah's favor can find s uch an opportunity (41:34-5)."
“…And who also harness their anger and forgive the people. Allah loves the righteous ones. (3:134)"

Pursing this, The Ahl ul-Bayt (a) advanced their instructions:
As he noticed that Qanbar was about to answer with revilement the man who had reviled at him, Amir ul-Mu'minin (a) said: “Slow down, Qanbar! Leave him who reviled at you plunging in humility so that you  will please the Beneficent Allah, annoy the Shaitan , and punish your enemy. I swear by Him Who split the seed and made the soul, nothing like clemency for the believers to achieve the satisfaction of the Lord, nothing like silence for them to annoy the Shaitan, and nothing more punishable than leaving th e foolish alone." [1]

The first remuneration that one can gain for showing clemency is people’s being his supporters against the ignorant." [2] Imam al-Baqir (a) said: “Allah does like the modest and the clement." [3]

Imam as-Sadiq (a) said: When a quarrel takes place, two angels attend there. They say to the foolish party, “You have said such and such. You are worthier of that which you have said. You will be punished for it." For the clement party, the angels say, “ You have stood and showed clemency. Allah will forgive you if you accomplish it." If the clement party answers the other, the angels leave the place. [4]

Allah will certainly increase (His bestowals to) the servant who suppresses his anger, and will reward him. Allah says: …And who also harness their anger and forgive the people. Allah loves the righteous ones. (3:134)" [5]

Imam al-Kadhim (a) said: “Be steadfast against the enemies of the graces, for your best retaliation for those who acted disobediently to Allah against you is to act obediently to Allah with them." [6]

Once, he (a) gathered his sons and said: “Sons, I will lead you to an instruction that saves you from deviation if you adhere to it. Accept the apology of him who reviled at you in your right ear, and then turned to your left to make an apology and claim that he had not said anything bad." [7]

The foolish may regard clemency as signs of weakness, while the intelligent regard it as signs of nobility, high standards, and honor.

When man’s prestige mounts, his traits become nobler he holds fast on clemency and pardon. Hence, he becomes the matter of admiration and praise.
It is related that a wise man answered those who asked him why he had not replied the one who had reviled at him: “I will not engage myself in a war the triumphant of which is eviler than the loser."

When al-Ma’mun, the Abbasid caliph, asked Imam ar-Rida (a) to recite some poetic verses, the Imam composed:
If he whose ignorance befell me is lower than I am in position, I will reject for myself to answer him by means of ignorance.
If he enjoys the same position of intelligence that I have, I will adopt for clemency so that I will not be likened to him.
If he is higher in position than I am, I will respect him from his preference.
As he heard these verses, al-Ma’mun showed his admiration and asked about the one who composed them. The Imam (a) answered: “He is one of our men." [8]

The Prophet and the immaculate Imams (a) were the ideal examples of clemency:

Imam al-Baqir (a) narrated: When the Jewess who served the Prophet (s) a poisonous meal was brought before him, he asked her a reason for her deed. “Well," she replied, “I said that the poisoned meal would not affect him if he was real prophet. But if he was only an ordinary king, the meal would save people from him." The Prophet pardoned her.

The Prophet (s) also forgave many individuals after he had outlawed and ordered to be killed.

Habbar ibn al-Aswad ibn al-Muttalib was one of those individuals. The Prophet (s) outlawed him after he had frightened Zainab –the Prophet’s daughter- and caused her to terminate her pregnancy.
It was related that this man came to the Prophet and said: “We, God’s Prophet, were polytheists, and God guided us to the right by you and saved us from perdition. I beseech to you to overlook my ignorance and that which I had committed, for I confess of my ill deeds and sins." The Prophet (s) answered him:

I will forgive you. Allah has done you a great favor when He guided you to Islam. Islam cancels that which was done before the embracement of it."
Abdullah ibn Az-Zubaari is another one. He used to satirize the Prophet (s) in Mecca so extremely. When the Prophet (s) conquered Mecca, Az-Zubaari fled it. After a period, he came back and apologized for the Prophet who accepted his apology.

Wahshi, the killer of Hamza (a) is a third one. When he declared being Muslim, the Prophet asked him to narrate how he had killed Hamza; his uncle. The man did and caused the Prophet to weep. He (s) then asked Wahshi not to appear before him any  longer. [9]

Amir ul-Mu'minin (a) was another ideal example of clemency and pardon.
When he captured Abdullah ibn az-Zubair, Marwan ibn al-Hakam, and Saeed ibn al-Aas who were the most mortal enemies that rallied people against him, he pardoned them and did not retaliate.

He (a) also could kill Amr ibn al-Aas who was more dangerous than an equipped army, but he left him because Amr unveiled his anus in order to save himself from the Imam’s strike!

During the battle of Siffeen, the troops of Muawiya prevented Amir ul-Mu'minin (a) to reach the springs of water there and told that they would not give him a single drop of water. When he (a) raided on them, he dropped them away from these springs. But he allowed them to drink from them, just like his troops.

After the Battle of the Camel, Amir ul-Mu'minin(a)
visited Mistress Aisha [10] and saw her off so honorably and
sent with her caravan a number of individuals whose mission was to serve and protect her. [11]

Like his father and grandfather, Imam al-Hasan (a) was another ideal example of clemency.

Al-Mubarrad and Ibn Aisha narrated the following:

A Syrian man went on reviling at Imam al-Hasan (a) who was riding an animal. The Imam kept silent until the Syrian man finished. He then approached him and answered with handsome smiling: “Old man! I think you are foreigner. You might have been wrong. If you had admonished us, we would have satisfied you. If you had asked us, we would have given you. If you had sought our guidance, we would have led you. If you had asked us to load something on your riding animal, we would have done. If you had been hun gry, we would have supplied you. If you had been naked, we would have dressed you. If you had been needy, we would have given you. If you had been fugitive, we would have succored you. If you had needed something, we would have settled your needs. I now  hope you would drive your riding animal towards our residence so that you will be our guest until you determine to leave. This will be better for you. We have a large residence, a remarkable position, and an abundant fortune."

As he heard the words of the Imam, the Syrian man wept and said: “It is surely that God is the most knowledgeable of the worthiest of conveying His message. Previously, your father and you were the most hateful creatures of God to me. But now, you are th e dearest creature to me." He then turned towards the residence of the Imam and was his guest until he left. He embraced the affection for The Ahl ul-Bayt (a( .

Thus was al-Hussein ibn Ali (a) :

A servant of Imam al-Hussein committed a mistake that caused him to be punished. The Imam therefore gave the orders of beating him.
 Master," said the servant, “(Remember God’s saying) those who refrain the anger."

The Imam ordered to release him.

Master," said the servant, “(Remember God’s saying) and those who forgive people."

The Imam forgave him.

Master," said the servant, “(Remember God’s saying) and Allah loves those who do good."

The Imam said, “Go, you are free for the sake of Allah. I will also double your payment" [12]

As I have read the life accounts of The Ahl ul-Bayt (a), I found them unique modes and ideal examples in the field of morality.

Narrators reported the following story about the unparalleled scope of Imam as-Sejjad's clemency:

One of the servants of Imam as-Sejjad tried to serve the guests of his master with the grill. He was so hurried that one of the skewers fell down from his hand to kill one of the Imam’s sons. The servant was so confused, but the Imam (a) said to him: “No w, I set you free, because you did not intend to kill the boy." Then, the Imam held the funeral ceremonies of the boy . [13]

Imam Musa ibn Ja’far (a) was called Al-Kadhim –the one who suppresses his anger--, because of his great clemency for the sake of God.

 A narrator reported the following story in this regard:
 In Medina, a descendant of one of the caliphs used to hurt Abu al-Hasan Musa (a) whenever he would meet him. Moreover, he used to revile at Ali and the Imam. The Imam’s retinue asked him to allow them to kill that man. The Imam ordered them not to do so. As he asked about that man, the Imam was told that he had a ranch in Medina. The Imam rode on a donkey, went to the ranch, saw the man, and entered that ranch with his donkey. “Do not tread on our yields," shouted the man. But the Imam did not pay  attention to his warning, and drove his riding animal to tread on the yields until he approached the man. He, then, rode off, sat with the man, spoke with him kindly, smiled in his face, and asked: “How much did I cause you to lose as a result of treading on your yields?"

About one hundred dinars," said the man.

How much do you expect to gain from it?" asked the Imam.

I cannot tell of the unseen," answered the man.

I only asked how much do you expect," said the Imam.

I expect two hundred dinars," answered the man.

The Imam (a) took out a bag of three hundred dinars and said to the man “This is for the yields, and Allah may give you that which you expect."

The man stood up, kissed the Imam on the head, and asked him to forgive his past wrongdoings. The Imam smiled and went away.

When the Imam entered the mosque, that man was sitting there. As soon as he saw him, he shouted: “It is surely that God is the most knowledgeable of the worthiest of conveying His message."

The man’s associates jumped to him with astonishment and asked, “What is the matter with you? We used to see the opposite of this."

Well," said the man, “you have heard my new situation," and went on praising and praying to God for the Imam (a). That situation made him lose those associates.

When the Imam went back home, he said to the company who had asked him to kill that man: “Which one is the best—your intention or my deed? I could guide that man to the right as much as you saw, and I could save myself from his evils." [14]

Aug 22, '10 11:55 AM
for everyone
Once the Buddha was walking from one town to another town with a few of his followers. This was in the initial days. While they were traveling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and the Buddha told one of his disciples, "I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there."

The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, "How can I give this 
muddy water to the Buddha to drink!"
So he came back and told the Buddha, "The water in there is very muddy. I don't think it is fit to drink." After about half an hour, again the Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake and get him some water to drink. The disciple obediently went back to the lake.

This time too he found that the lake was muddy. He returned and told the Buddha the same thing.

After some time, the Buddha once again asked the same disciple to return to the lake. The disciple reached the lake to find it absolutely clean and clear with pure water in it. The mud had settled down and the water above it looked fit to be had. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to the Buddha. 


The Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said," See what you did to make the water clean? You let it be.... and the mud settled down on its own - and you got clear water. 
Your mind is also like that! When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don't have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless." 


KEEP SMILING - not because of something, but in spite of everything 
Aug 22, '10 11:53 AM
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Elderly Gentlemen    An elderly gentleman...
Had serious hearing problems for a number of years. He went to the doctor  and the doctor was able to have him fitted for a set of hearing aids that  allowed the gentleman to hear 100%. The elderly gentleman went back in a month to the doctor and the doctor said, 'Your hearing is perfect. Your family must be really pleased that you  can hear again.'
The gentleman replied, 'Oh, I haven't told my family yet.
I just sit around and listen to the conversations. I've changed my will three times!'
Two elderly gentlemen from a retirement center were sitting on a bench under a tree when one turns to the other and says: 'Slim, I'm 83 years old  now and I'm just full of aches and pains. I know you're about my age. How  do you feel?'
Slim says, 'I feel just like a newborn baby.'
'Really!? Like a newborn baby!?'
'Yep. No hair, no teeth, and I think I just wet my pants.'

An elderly couple had dinner at another couple's house, and after eating,  the wives left the table and went into the kitchen.
The two gentlemen were talking, and one said, 'Last night we went out to a  new restaurant and it was really great. I would recommend it very highly.'
The other man said, 'What is the name of the restaurant?'
The first man thought and thought and finally said, 'What is the name of that flower you give to someone you love?
You know... The one that's red and has thorns.'
'Do you mean a rose?'
'Yes, that's the one,' replied the man. He then turned towards the kitchen and yelled, 'Rose, what's the name of that restaurant we went to last night?'

Hospital regulations require a wheel chair for patients being
discharged. However, while working as a student nurse, I found one elderly gentleman already dressed and sitting on the bed with a suitcase at his feet, who insisted he didn't need my help to leave the hospital.
After a chat about rules being rules, he reluctantly let me wheel him to the elevator.
On the way down I asked him if his wife was meeting him.
'I don't know,' he said. 'She's still upstairs in the bathroom changing out of her hospital gown.'

Couple in their nineties are both having problems remembering things. During a checkup, the doctor tells them that they're physically okay, but they might want to start writing things down to help them remember.
Later that night, while watching TV, the old man gets up from his chair.
'Want anything while I'm in the kitchen?' he asks.
'Will you get me a bowl of ice cream?'
'Sure.'
'Don't you think you should write it down so you can remember it?' she asks.
'No, I can remember it.'
'Well, I'd like some strawberries on top, too. Maybe you should write it  down, so's not to forget it?'
He says, 'I can remember that. You want a bowl of ice cream with strawberries. '
'I'd also like whipped cream. I'm certain you'll forget that, write it down?' she asks.
Irritated, he says, 'I don't need to write it down, I can remember it!
Ice  cream with strawberries and whipped cream - I got it, for goodness sake!'
Then he toddles in to the kitchen. After about 20 minutes,  The old man returns from the kitchen and hands his wife a plate of bacon and eggs. She stares at the plate for a moment and says,  'Where's my toast ?'


A senior citizen said to his eighty-year old buddy:
'So I hear you're getting married?'
'Yep!'
'Do I know her?'
'Nope!'
'This woman, is she good looking?'
'Not really.'
'Is she a good cook?'
'Naw, she can't cook too well! 'Does she have lots of money?'  'Nope!'
Poor as a church mouse'.> >  'Why in the world do you want to marry her then?'
'Because she can still drive!'
Three old guys are out walking.
First one says, 'Windy, isn't it?'
Second one says, 'No, it's Thursday!'
Third one says, 'So am I. Let's go get a beer
.'
A man was telling his neighbor, 'I just bought a new hearing aid. It cost  me four thousand dollars, but it's state of the art. It's perfect.'
'Really,' answered the neighbor. 'What kind is it?'
' Twelve thirty.'

Morris, an 82 year-old man, went to the doctor to get a physical. A few days later, the doctor saw Morris walking down the street with a gorgeous young woman on his arm.
A couple of days later, the doctor spoke to Morris and said, 'You're really  doing great, aren't you?'
Morris replied, 'Just doing what you said, Doc: 'Get a hot mamma and be cheerful.''
The doctor said, 'I didn't say that. I said, 'You've got a heart murmur; be  careful.'

A little old man shuffled slowly into an ice cream parlor and pulled himself slowly, painfully, up onto a stool.. After catching his breath, he  ordered a banana split.
The waitress asked kindly, 'Crushed nuts?'
'No,' he replied, "Arthritis.
'
Aug 22, '10 11:44 AM
for everyone
My mom only had one eye. I hated her... She was such an embarrassment. .
She cooked for students & teachers to support the family.
There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to
Say hello to me.
I was so embarrassed.
How could she do this to me?
I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.
The next day at school one of my classmates said, 'EEEE, your mom only
Has one eye!'
I wanted to bury myself.
I also wanted my mom to just disappear..
I confronted her that day and said, ' If you're only gonna make me a
Laughing stock, why don't you just die?'
My mom did not respond....
I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because
I was full of anger.
I was oblivious to her feelings.
I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her.
So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study.
Then, I got married.
I bought a house of my own.
I had kids of my own.
I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts, Then one day, my
Mother came to visit me.
She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her
Grandchildren.
When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at
Her for coming over uninvited...
I screamed at her, 'How dare you come to my house and scare my
Children!'
GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!'
And to this, my mother quietly answered, 'Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have
Gotten the wrong address,'
And she disappeared out of sight.
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.
So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.
After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.
My neighbors said that she died.
I did not shed a single tear.

They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

'My dearest son,
I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to your house and
Scared your children.
I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.
But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were
Growing up.
You see........when you were very little, you got into an accident, and
Lost your eye.
As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you
Having to grow up with one eye.
So I gave you mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my
Place, with that eye.
With all my love to you,
Your mother.


Send this to at least 10 people in the next 5 minutes to show you love your mother. 

If you don't then it shows you have no heart


Always tell someone that you love them because you never know what day
Will be their last, or your own.

Always seek to resolve your problems or disagreements with loved ones
Because if either of you should pass on before, the one who is left alive will have the rest of their life to ponder those unresolved feelings but will never find closure. And closure usually brings
Peace...

Aug 22, '10 11:36 AM
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> Guitar, for sale........ Cheap....... . .......no strings attached.
>
>
>
> Ad In Hospital Waiting Room:
> Smoking Helps You Lose Weight ... One Lung At A Time!
>
> On a bulletin board:
> Success Is Relative. The more The Success, The more The Relatives.
>
> When I Read About The Evils Of Drinking...
> I Gave Up Reading
>
> My Grandfather Is Eighty And Still Doesn't Need Glasses....
> He Drinks Straight Out Of 
The Bottle.
>
> You Know Your kids Have 
Grown Up When:
> Your Daughter Begins To Put On Lipstick..
> Or when your Son starts To wipe It Off
>
> Sign In A Bar:
> 'Those Of You Who Are Drinking To Forget, Please do Pay In Advance.'
>
> Sign In 
Driving School:
> If Your Wife Wants To Learn To Drive, Don't Stand In Her Way....
>
> Behind Every Great Man,
> There Is A Surprised Woman.
>
> The Reason Men Lie Is Because
> Women Ask too Many Questions..
>
> Getting Caught
> Is The Mother Of Invention.
>
> Laugh And The World Laughs With You,
> Snore And You sleep Alone
>
> The Surest Sign That Intelligent Life Exists Elsewhere In 
The Universe
> Is The Fact That It Has Never Tried To Contact Us.
>
> Sign At A Barber's Saloon In 
Detroit :
> We Need Your Heads To Run Our Business..
>
> Sign In A 
Restaurant:
> All 
Drinking Water In This Establishment Has Been Personally Passed By
> The Manager.
Aug 22, '10 11:31 AM
for everyone
A beautiful poem- I'm Malkul Maut
I'm Malkul Maut
It was early in the morning at four,
When death knocked upon a bedroom door.

Who is there? The sleeping one cried.
 
I'm Malkul Maut, let me inside.
 

At once, the man began to shiver,
 
As one sweating in deadly fever,
 

He shouted to his sleeping wife,
 
Don't let him take away my life.
 

Please go away, O Angel of Death!
 
Leave me alone; I'm not ready yet.
 

My parents and family on me depends,
 
Give me a chance, O please prepense!
 

The angel knocked again and again,
 
Friend! I'll take your life without a pain,
 

Tis your soul Allah requires,
 
I come not with my own desires..
 
Bewildered, the man began to cry, 
Angel I'm  afraid to die, 

I'll give you gold and be your slave,
 
Don't send me to the unlit grave.
 

Let me in, O Friend! The Angel said,
 
Open the door; get up from your bed,
 

If you do not allow me in,
 
I will walk through it, like a 
Jinn. 

The man held a gun in his hand,
 
Ready to defy the Angel's stand..
 

I'll point my gun, towards your head,
 
You dare come in; I'll shoot you dead.
 

By now the Angel was in the room,
 
Saying, O Friend! Prepare for you doom.
 

Foolish man, Angels never die,
 
Put down your gun and do not sigh.

Why are you afraid! Tell me O man,
 
To die according to Allah's plan?
 
Come smile at me, do not be grim,
 
Be Happy, to return to Him.
 

O Angel! I bow my head in shame;
 
I had no time to take Allah's Name.
 

From morning till dusk, I made my wealth,
 
Not even caring for my own health.
 

Allah's command I never obeyed,
 
Nor five times a day I ever prayed.
 
Ramadan came and a Ramadan went, 
But I had no time to repent.
 

The 
Hajj was already FARD on me, 
But I would not part with my money.
 

All charities I did ignore,
 
Taking usury more and more.
 

Sometimes I sipped my favorite wine,
 
With flirting women I sat to dine...
 

O Angel! I appeal to you,
 
Spare my life for a year or two.
 

The Laws of 
Quran I will obey, 
I'll begin my SALAT this very day.
 

My Fast and Hajj, I will complete,
 
And keep away from self-conceit.
 

I will refrain from usury,
 
And give all my wealth to charity,
 

Wine and wenches I will detest,
 
Allah's oneness I will attest.
 

We Angels do what Allah demands,
 
We cannot go against His commands..
 

Death is ordained for everyone,
 
Father, mother, daughter or son.
 

I
‚m afraid this moment is your last, 
Now be reminded, of your past,
 

do understand your dreadful fears,
 
But it is now too late for your tears.
 

You lived in this world, two score and more,
 
Never did to you, your people adore.
 

Your parents, you did not obey,
 
Hungry beggars, you turned away.
 

Your two ill-gotten, female offspring,
 
In nightclubs, for livelihood they sing.
 

Instead of making many more Muslims,
 
You made your children more non-Muslims?

You did ignore the Mua'dhin Adhaan,
 
Nor did you read the Holy 
Qur'an. 

Breaking promises all your life,
 
Backbiting friends, and causing strife !

From hoarded goods, great profits you made,
 
And for your poor workers, you always underpaid.
 

Horses and fancy cars were your leisure,
 
Moneymaking was only your pleasure.
 

You ate vitamins and grew more fat,
 
With the very sick, you never sat.
 

A pint of blood you never gave,
 
Which could a little baby save?
 

O Human, you have done enough wrong,
 
You bought good properties for a song.
 

When the farmers appealed to you,
 
You did not have mercy, tis true.
 

Paradise for you? I cannot tell,
 
Undoubtedly you will dwell in a hell.
 

There is no time for you to repent,
 
I'll take your soul for which I am sent.
 

The ending however, is very sad,
 
Eventually the man became mad
 

With a cry, he jumped out of bed,
 
And suddenly, he fell down dead.
 

O my Brother! Take moral from here,
 
You never know, your end may be near
 

Change your living and make amends
 
For heaven, on your deeds depends.
 

if this poem inspires you,
 
It can help someone too.
 

At least take some time, and do not ban
 
And send it to as many people as you can.
This poem may change many lives,
And Allah may have for you a great surprise.
(Sent by sis Shabana)
Aug 22, '10 11:18 AM
for everyone
What Are The Different Types Of Skin Cancer Cells? 

There are many different types of skin cancer, each with its own cause and course of treatment. Primarily, skin cancer falls into three categories, which are melanoma, basal, and squamous cell.

Skin cancer is one of the most preventable types of cancer. Excessive exposure to the sun’s UV rays are the most common cause of the disease. In fact over 1,000,000 people are affected each year.

Skin cancer can be dvided into three different types of cancer.

Squamous Cell Carcinoma

These carcinomas are found usually in places on the body that have been exposed to the sun, like ears, the face and the mouth.

Symptoms include a bump that turns in to an open sore (ulceration, reddish, flat spot that is sometimes crusty, a bump that gets larger and a sore that won’t heal.

Left untreated, it can spread quickly to other parts of the body, like the lymphatic system, bloodstream, and nerve routes.

Basal Cell Carcinoma

Accounting for more than 75% of skin cancers diagnosed, basal cell carcinoma is the most commonly developed skin cancer.

These carcinomas are most commonly found on the face, neck, and hands. It is considered highly treatable and rarely spreads to other parts of the body.

Symptoms include a sore that oozes or bleeds, a redness area that is irritated, a yellow or white area that resembles a scar, and a pink pearly bump.

Melanoma

Melanoma is the most dangerous and deadly type of skin cancer.It can develop on any part of the body, however the arms, legs and trunk are the most common area of the body. When detected early, it is considered highly treatable.

Symptoms include a mole, freckle, or new/existing spot that changes color in size, shape, and color. It may have an irregular outline and possible be more than one color.

Your best defense in preventing skin cancer is to avoid excessive exposure to the sun. When you are outdoors, be sure to always wear a sunscreen, and stay in a shady area if possible!
Aug 22, '10 11:16 AM
for everyone
Skin Cancer Signs and Symptoms – Watch Out

A basal cell carcinoma (BCC) usually looks like a raised, smooth, pearly bump on the sun-exposed skin of the head, neck, or shoulders.

    * Small blood vessels may be visible within the tumor.

    * A central depression with crusting and bleeding (ulceration) frequently develops.

    * A BCC is often mistaken for a sore that does not heal.

A squamous cell carcinoma (SCC) is commonly a well-defined, red, scaling, thickened patch on sun-exposed skin.

    * Like BCCs, SCCs may ulcerate and bleed.

    * Left untreated, SCC may develop into a large mass.

The majority of malignant melanomas are brown to black pigmented lesions.

    * Warning signs include change in size, shape, color, or elevation of a mole.

    * The appearance of a new mole during adulthood, or new pain, itching, ulceration, or bleeding of an existing mole should all be checked by a health-care provider.

The following easy-to-remember guideline, “ABCD,” is useful for identifying malignant melanoma:

    * Asymmetry-One side of the lesion does not look like the other.

    * Border irregularity-Margins may be notched or irregular.

    * Color-Melanomas are often a mixture of black, tan, brown, blue, red, or white.

    * Diameter-Cancerous lesions are usually larger than 6 mm across (about the size of a pencil eraser), but any change in size may be significant.

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